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Group Therapy: Will I Ever Get Over My First Love?

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My ex and I dated for more than six years and basically did everything together. He was basically my first in anything. But I felt I was the one making it work toward the end of that relationship. One night we both ended going to a party and he saw me with a guy friend and thought we kissed when we only hugged. The next day I sent him a message explaining what happened and all he did was say, "OK now you're on your own." Honestly, that hurt but instead of asking him back I just accepted his decision.

A week passed and rumors were going around about him flirting with a new girl who is now his current girlfriend and basically calling me the worst. I was so devastated, but I never showed it. Of course the feelings for him are still there, but I just don't know how to let go of those feelings. It's also been a couple of months that have passed, and according to his girlfriend I'm a fake, people dislike me, I'm a cheater and that maybe he never felt what love was really about. I never deserved that honestly. But I don't know if I'll ever forget him. Any advice?

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