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Good Guy vs Bad Guy

Are you attracted to the good guy or the bad guy? We all know who is "right" for us in the long run, but more times than not, the good guy gets the short end of the stick because so many women just love to love the bad boy, knowing damn well what's going to happen in the end! So what I want to know is, who do you typically find yourself attracted to?

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calli-gurl calli-gurl 8 years
either way theres always something to change
melda melda 9 years
i have been with both and my current boyfriend is good guy
A_Kat A_Kat 9 years
Our problem is... we always think we can fix them... well... we can't. Oye. You'd think we'd learn!
Midnightkiss4u09 Midnightkiss4u09 9 years
Good guy-My hubby is a great man.
lady-T lady-T 9 years
good guy..i snagged a very good guy..we have a great time, we respect each other yet we can be naughty if we need to :P
sweetheart_450 sweetheart_450 9 years
Good guy. They can be just as fun ;) Plus I really don't see the point in going for a bad guy if you're only going to try and change him into something else.
partysugar partysugar 9 years
As much as I would like to say good guy I'm totally into the bad guys.
vmruby vmruby 9 years
A good boy with just a little bid of badness to him....
tokenguy tokenguy 9 years
Well, a lot of girls voted for bad guy. And I think we all know that a bad guy will get a lot more action than a good guy - and let's be honest, guys want action.
martini-queenie martini-queenie 9 years
I went through a bad boy phase from about 17-20. So happy I grew out of that!
onesong onesong 9 years
i like my good guys who are no angels...you know, the one that cherishes you like crazy but sometimes gets home and drags you off the couch for a motorcycle ride down to a seafood restaurant at the shore! yup, i got me a good guy :) :)
fab4 fab4 9 years
I was always attracted to bad boys, but now the older I get, the more I want a good guy (which is what I have!!) I think the thing that attracts us to bad boys is the thrill of the game. They play a little harder to get and that will get you everytime!
blondebombshell blondebombshell 9 years
I love the fact that you used Sex and the City's two adorable men as examples of a bad boy and a good man. Personally I date good guys, and have crushes on bad boys that usually don't go past crushes.
designergirl designergirl 9 years
I am really attracted to the "bad" guy, but I respect myself too much to ever date a "bad" guy. The "good" guy can be amazing attractive also.
Mad_Muffin Mad_Muffin 9 years
I've been always attracted to bad guys somehow, but thankfully ended up with a very good one :)
nessabum nessabum 9 years
i said good, but he still should be a bit of a challenge. gotta keep me on my toes someone. like my guy right now. he's such a sweetie.
junebrug junebrug 9 years
I guess it depends on your individual definition of a "bad guy." If you mean a guy who drives a motorcycle and has tatoos, that's fine. If you mean a drug-using, cheating, thief and liar, that's not fine.
popgoestheworld popgoestheworld 9 years
Okay I love that your name is "tokenguy". I don't have much to add to this topic. If I date a guy and he turns out to be a bad guy, I ditch him. I guess I'm too practical.
junebrug junebrug 9 years
I love the heroic type, the good guy. And if Mr. Big weren't ridiculously hotter than Aidan, I'd stick to that story completely.
mollipop mollipop 9 years
Bad boys are a complete turn-off for me.
tokenguy tokenguy 9 years
Haha, thanks Kendalheart. While it might be true when they are "settling down" they want a good guy, it's pretty bad that they want a bad guy in the mean time. So what are you meant to do as a guy? Be a bad guy when you want some action and then magically transform yourself into a good guy later? It's a bit like pavlov's dog - you provide a reward, or punishment, for action. Generally, bad boys are "rewarded" and good guys are "punished", particularly in the formative years (teens, early 20s).
kendalheart kendalheart 9 years
Oh tokenguy, don't fret. Although women want bad guys, they don't usually end up with them. There is always a nice mix when guys are a bit of both. And hey, that little last comment may make you a bit a bad boy women want you never know lol
tokenguy tokenguy 9 years
As the token guy here, this pisses me off a bit. Everywhere you go, you hear woman bitching about how hard it is to find a decent guy. Yet according to the poll, about 50% of you want a bad boy! Well guess what single girls moaning about being single, you've made your bed, now sleep in it - alone. Yeah, ok, so I'm in a bitchy mood today, I'm not always this bad...
kendalheart kendalheart 9 years
I like a guy who is good but can be a little bad :)
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