Welcome to DearSugar's new feature: Handle This. I'm going to give you a hypothetical scenario and ask you to tell me how you would handle it in the comments below. Let's give it a whirl.
You've been in a happy relationship for almost a year. Your boyfriend has a lot of single friends, but one in particular is a total ladies man. You've always avoided setting up your friends with him because you know what happens behind the scenes and you don't want your friends to get hurt.
Despite all your efforts, one night your good friend hooked up with him. They continued to talk and occasionally see each other, but it was always on a casual level. According to your friend, things are progressing and she is happy, but you hear the real story from your boyfriend — that he isn't really interested, that it was just a few hook ups, that he's seeing other people, etc. You really don't want to get involved and stir the pot, but you can't stand to sit back and watch your friend have the wool pulled over her eyes. It's a tough position to be in, so ladies, tell me how you would handle it?