Although you knew you and your boyfriend would be getting married in the near future, recently he surprised you with a proposal. You were thrilled, but the ring leaves something to be desired. It’s not your style and not very pretty. You were going to ask him if you could return it, but then he told you it was a family heirloom — his grandmother’s ring! Your friends say it would be too horrible to say something, but you really don’t like it! How would you handle this?