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Has a Booty Call Ever Rang Too Late For You?

Has a Booty Call Ever Rang Too Late For You?

Booty calls have their benefits, but they can be more of a turnoff if they ring too late in the night.

My roommate got a call around 1:00 a.m. from a guy she'd never even hooked up with. She answered it, but said she was not schlepping halfway across town at that hour. I think it was a smart move. Not only did she get to hook up with him the next week at a decent hour, but it was on her terms. Plus, it's fun to say no!

Maybe in an established relationship (even casual ones) it's different, but the first, or even the first few times, you hook up you're setting boundaries and establishing rules. Has a booty call ever come too late for you?

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hypnoticmix hypnoticmix 5 years
I use to do late night booty calls until I put 2 and 2 together. Some guys would call me after 2am a little drunk and I soon realized that the only reason they're calling me is because they didn't find anything at the club. Oh no honey! I'm not sloppy seconds. I will not be your back up plan F that! When it comes to sleep I'm also the type that once I'm in R.E.M. it's very difficult to get me interested. My bf on the other hand often wakes up frisky in the middle of the night so I've come to compromise and drag my self out of bed and hop in a cold shower for a minute then give him his goodies.
hypnoticmix hypnoticmix 5 years
I use to do late night booty calls until I put 2 and 2 together. Some guys would call me after 2am a little drunk and I soon realized that the only reason they're calling me is because they didn't find anything at the club. Oh no honey! I'm not sloppy seconds. I will not be your back up plan F that! When it comes to sleep I'm also the type that once I'm in R.E.M. it's very difficult to get me interested. My bf on the other hand often wakes up frisky in the middle of the night so I've come to compromise and drag my self out of bed and hop in a cold shower for a minute then give him his goodies.
Venus1 Venus1 5 years
Call me old fashioned but if someone called me at 1:00 am I would want to kill them. If the phone rings in the night by immediate reaction is that something is wrong.
Rjs-baby-girl Rjs-baby-girl 5 years
I said no because I've never had a booty call.
amber512 amber512 5 years
I need an option for never having a "booty call."
WritingLikeCrazy WritingLikeCrazy 5 years
Got a call at 3 am. When I called the guy on it the next morning, he said he'd been doing coke and was spazzing out so needed someone to talk to. I said, "you're booty calling me AND doing coke all night? Which reason would you like me to use to insist you never contact me again?"
bronzebeauty719 bronzebeauty719 5 years
i think you do set a good precedent by saying no...it will force the guy to make more of an effort and invest more time and energy...
stephley stephley 5 years
I'm with Glitzy. You're not really setting a very important boundry if your response is call me next week at a decent hour.
GlitzyGlam GlitzyGlam 5 years
I really don't think a serious woman should fall into the category of being just a hook up... Maybe for college it's fun, but chances are if a guy calls you late at night (booty call) I don't think he will take you seriously and more than likely it will just be a one night thing, or the relationship will never get serious.This isn't learned by experience, just opinions and advice from guy friends.
GlitzyGlam GlitzyGlam 5 years
I really don't think a serious woman should fall into the category of being just a hook up... Maybe for college it's fun, but chances are if a guy calls you late at night (booty call) I don't think he will take you seriously and more than likely it will just be a one night thing, or the relationship will never get serious. This isn't learned by experience, just opinions and advice from guy friends.
Natalie-Love Natalie-Love 5 years
I never had a booty call, but to be honest, I take my sleep very.very. seriously. If I'm sleeping, and you wake me up to give me $5000, I will still yell at you for waking me up. It could have waited until the morning. I'm that kind of sleeper, hahaha....So a guy would feel my wrath if they called past 11. Or even 10. I like to sleep...
Natalie-Love Natalie-Love 5 years
I never had a booty call, but to be honest, I take my sleep very.very. seriously. If I'm sleeping, and you wake me up to give me $5000, I will still yell at you for waking me up. It could have waited until the morning. I'm that kind of sleeper, hahaha.... So a guy would feel my wrath if they called past 11. Or even 10. I like to sleep...
cotedazur cotedazur 5 years
I established "the midnight rule" with my college hookup -- he had to call before midnight, or I was off limits. It worked out pretty well for both of us :)
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