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Sunday Confessional: I Slept With a Dude in My Apartment Building

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So yes — basically that is what happened — a neighbor, someone that I have the potential of seeing everyday, good or bad. 

I am getting over a relationship that I was in for over a year. This particular one has been difficult for me; but I started dating and so forth. I was hanging with a friend and after I left since it was the weekend and didn't feel like going home, I went to a local hotel bar that normally is pretty much dead, even on the weekends. I get there and it is full of Motocross people (super fun) and I had a few too many Hen shots. Went home and texted my neighbor who I have befriended for a few months since this flooding incident that brought neighbors together that didn't know each other. Anyway, he was up and I said, want to go walk the dog with me, which we have done before. This is very innocent, and I really had zero intention of anything happening. We walked the dog. He asked if I wanted to come up and watch a movie. I said sure, yada yada yada. You know what happened. 

I did have enough "scruples" to say "I think that this might make things weird," but you know he kissed me and that was it. So now everything seems somewhat normal, a text of "goodnight" things like that. So all of the analyzing and questioning is in my head — is this something that can go on, like a "no strings attached thing" or ????  I know eventually we have to talk, just never thought of him as more than a friend until now. Is this going to mess up my game with anyone else that may swing by my house? I think we crossed the point of no return . . . ugh.

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