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The How-To Lounge: Giving a Lap Dance

Now, I don’t think that anyone should be rushing out and giving lap dances to random gents, but lap dances can be a sexy and fun way to spice up your foreplay. It can also be a serious treat for your man and a great way to take the initiative. To learn my tips,


  • First and most important, act confident — even if you don’t feel it. Tell yourself that you’re the sexiest woman on the planet, and then act like you really believe it. It will make all the difference in the world.
  • Put on some music. Not only will the right song set the mood, but it’ll also give you some rhythm to move along with.
  • Don’t be afraid to tantalize him for a while without actually touching him directly. Move your body up and down in front of him, before straddling him with your legs.
    Then use your upper body to roll into him and press up against him. You can even smack your bottom and smile at him — he'll never see it coming!
  • Finally, put his hands on your body while you run your hands through his hair. Lift off his shirt, and let your fingertips trail down his chest.

As always, have fun, and do what feels right for you!


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