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Group Therapy: Did I Say the Wrong Thing?

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Last night I was talking to a guy I've been dating for a month. We were bantering back and forth, and he mentioned "our relationship." We haven't had a "relationship" talk yet, so I said, "Relationship?!" and he said, "Let's not put a label on it, so no one gets hurt. You seem kind of fragile." I said I'm not fragile! I have never brought up our status or "the talk" and never would without him doing so first. Do you think I hurt his feelings when I was incredulous about a relationship, or is he just trying to put things in perspective, since it's only been a month? I'm supposed to see him tomorrow, do I act nonchalant about the whole thing?

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