My boyfriend and I have been together for three years now. We met in high school and are both 20. He's an amazing guy; he would do anything in the world for me and accepts me for exactly who I am. We've been through some very difficult times together. He was there when my mom passed away, and I helped him deal with his parents shunning him when he decided to move in with me. On paper, I love him more than I can say.
The problem is that I'm realizing that I'm not longer truly in love with him. We've been going through some issues lately — I was on the patch and it completely killed my libido. Our sex life has been virtually non-existent for the last six months, and even now that I'm on another birth control, I have trouble physically and emotionally being intimate. It's been very difficult on our relationship, to the point where I feel sometimes like we're more roommates than a couple. Basically, I miss us.
I feel like I need to fall in love with him again, but I don't know how. We live together, and I feel like that makes things difficult as far as finding romance again. I desperately want to save this relationship. I just can't figure out how to get my head back to the way it used to be. Does anyone have any advice to get the spark ignited again?
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