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How Do You Handle The Morning After A One Night Stand?

We've all been there. Whatever the extenuating circumstances are from our wild night out, we wake up feeling overwhelmingly happy, or embarrassed and regrettable about our no-strings attached, sexual encounter.

The tricky party is handling the situation in the morning. When the sun is just coming up and you find yourself in bed, cozied up to someone you never thought you'd wind up with, how do you handle yourself?

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yikes yikes 9 years
Holy self-righteousness.
vmruby vmruby 9 years
Not all of us are like you.IMO that has to be the most stupidest,nastiest, and careless thing anyone could do to themselves. Personally i've always had alot more respect for myself........
Vannuccia Vannuccia 9 years
"Never say never" is my motto, but personally I have never been drunk enough to want to have sex with a randomer (as me and my friends call them ;) ). There's something quite sad about saying or doing things when you're drunk that you wouldn't have the balls to do sober. Out of all my female friends, only one has ever had a one night stand (and she's ended up engaged to him !).
Jinx Jinx 9 years
lol, I didn't expect people to be so offended. You might not wake up next to someone you never thought you'd be with, maybe he was a conquest?! lol ------------------------------------------------------ Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited. — Albert Einstein
juliet juliet 9 years
I agree, we have not all been there. I would like to say "What other people do is there business - do whatever you like" but the truth is, I worry about women who do this on a regular basis. It's not morals I'm worried about. STDs are a factor, but if you use protection, it's safer. But you can never prepare yourself for a violent or dangerous person who is physically stronger than you. It's just not a safe situation to put yourself in. On top of all that, I am strongly against "drunk sex". For me, personally, I just don't get it. I don't think "sexually empowered and/or free" equals safe, smart, or sexy. Sex is a lot better when it's with someone you love and trust.
Miami-Gal Miami-Gal 9 years
I tried to have one after getting out of a long term relationship when I went to Vegas to visit my sis. It wasn't like I said, hey, I'm going to go find a guy. It happened and we talked and hung out for awhile. I then left because my flight was that night. I found out later through many phone calls (he never stopped calling me) that we were incompatible in lots of ways. It has been over 3 years and to this day, he begs me to come see him in LA. So I can't really answer that poll, because while it was a one time experience, it's not something I will ever do again. Some people do on a regular basis for different reasons. I can say that I have a steady who I'm nuts about and it just gets better and better. So I can't imagine anyone doing it just for sex.
Deba Deba 9 years
Oh common! Im not a slut, I dont fuck any guy that crosses my way, but yes I have had "one night" stands.... and is nothing from the other world. You went to a bar, you met a nice guy, you talked all night, you are not looking for a serious relationship... you did it... Personally, I've learned a lot as woman from those experiences, and if you want sexually speaking too
lilxmissxmolly lilxmissxmolly 9 years
Never been there and don't plan to be...morals and STDs **“In my mind, I’ve always been an A-list Hollywood superstar. Y’all just didn’t know yet.” -Will Smith **
kittycat kittycat 9 years
never been in that situation. dont plan to. one night stand disgusts me. scary. immoral. not safe. all the stds out there.
la_clique la_clique 9 years
Never been there, so luckily don't have to worry.
Padraigin Padraigin 9 years
I've never been there, either and never plan to be.
WhatTheFrockBlog WhatTheFrockBlog 9 years
I've never been there, either. I guess I'd probably sneak out.
tifygodess24 tifygodess24 9 years
Like I tell my girlfriends if you do it please be safe!!!!
tifygodess24 tifygodess24 9 years
I havent ever done this either, Ive been married like all of my life almost hehe... but a few of my friends have and they usually always hate the next morning. But I will admit listening to their stories is a guilty pleasure of mine :)
lolak lolak 9 years
Yeah, haven't been there either. It's kind of scary to even think about wakin up next to a complete stranger or even about not waking up at all!!!! I wouldn't even let this happen with any of my already friends. I have to have feelings for someone I allow to touch me.
yayita yayita 9 years
Never done it either, im an :angel
Holly_G Holly_G 9 years
One night stands can be fun, but personally, I preferred to just leave after the deed, why sleep with someone you don't have a relationship with? It's easier to just leave before morning comes.
LaLaLola LaLaLola 9 years
Never, had one, never plan to, but lots of my friends have. I guess I'd say a combination of choice three and two, hey safe and polite!
M155-J4CK13 M155-J4CK13 9 years
If I had to chose an answer based on my personality, I would say Choice 1.
M155-J4CK13 M155-J4CK13 9 years
I wouldn't say such behavior is wrong, but personally, I don't fuck random men after a few cocktails.
arianell arianell 9 years
Definitely haven't been there.
lickety-split lickety-split 9 years
please, we have NOT all been there. why would this be seen as some sort of right of passage? gross, dangerous, irresponsible, self injurious and just plain unnecessary. 2007?
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