Feeling sexy is something we should all aspire to. The secret is finding what makes you feel hot and confident and not just on special occasions but on the regular. It's easy to get stuck in the routine of practical underwear and mopey music, so we're suggesting 10 simple activities with some major sexy potential. Whether you're single, married, or somewhere in between, these ideas will boost your confidence and your sexiness.

Book a Day at the Spa

Why it works: Feeling pampered (and looking glowing) can set you on the track to sexiness, stat. A day full of manis and pedis, hot tubs, and full-body massages — what else could you possibly need?

Take a Pole-Dancing Class

Why it works: Intimidating, maybe, but just about anyone should can take a pole-dancing class at least once. Not only will you get your body moving in positions you didn't know were possible, but those sky-high heels are guaranteed to bring out your sexy side.

Read an Erotic Novel

Why it works: There's nothing like a hot page-turner to get you in touch with your sensual side. As plenty of fans of the Fifty Shades of Grey [1] trilogy can attest, reading an erotic book [2] can open you up to fantasies far from the everyday life you're used to.

Go to a Bar Alone

Why it works: Approaching a bar, ordering a drink, and sitting by yourself when you're dressed up is super sexy. Although the thought of doing so might make you want to run in the opposite direction, you'll feel incredibly confident afterward — promise. And who knows who you'll meet?

Buy Some New Lingerie

Why it works: The same old white bra is getting old — even for you. Even if you don't have anyone to show off to, shopping for a delicate bra and underwear set will put you in the sexy mood, guaranteed.

Pump Up the Volume

Why it works: There's something really hot about turning up the volume and letting loose to some sexy songs [3] when you're home alone. Or make a sexy playlist for the next time you're not alone. Either way, some bump 'n' grind music will certainly do the trick.

Take a Candlelit Bubble Bath

Why it works: It may be a cliché, but there's a reason the bubble bath is a sexy go-to. Not only is it totally relaxing, but bubbles and candles are the perfect recipe for feeling a little racy.

Cook a Meal

Why it works: Certain foods serve as aphrodisiacs, which makes cooking even sexier. Look for items like hot chili or avocados the next time you want an extraspecial delicious dinner. Plus, feeling confident in the kitchen can extend to the bedroom.

Hit the Gym

Why it works: We know that exercise releases endorphins, so hitting the gym is high on the sexy list. Go for a run on the treadmill or lift some weights, and just try not to feel the rush afterward.

Put on Red Lipstick

Why it'll make you feel sexy: It's the simplest, most effortless way to add sizzle. One swipe of some classic red lipstick, and you'll both look and feel like a siren.