Next month's issue of Spin is reporting that Lenny Kravitz has been celibate for the past three years — shocking, I know! He said:
Where I'm at in life, the women have got to come with something else, not just the body, but the mind and spirit. It usually trips them out, but that's the way it's going to be. I'm looking at the big picture.
Since some people are able to have sex without love, this may seem a little over the top, but for those of you who need a deeper connection like Lenny does, tell me, would you go so far as abstaining from sex for years until you met someone with the whole package? Years ladies, years!