I have kids (two of whom are really young and two a little older) and a home with my husband. We have been going through hard times and got a legal separation. Since last December every night he has asked me to stay with him and our boys — but recently he asked if I'm still getting my own apartment.
I really want him to be in love with me again, but he won't show it unless it has been a couple nights without sex and then he wants me — but still won't tell me that he loves me. I don't know what to do — because I still love him so very much, and I can't be without my children. I want the family and husband back that I had before. I don't know what to do next. I am so hurt, lonely, and confused. Please help if you have any suggestions that aren't hurtful and mean. There is only so much one person can take.