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How do I get past this? He claims he thought I knew — NO! After 10 years he said something about having a sore, but I didn't know where it was and he never told me he went to the doctor nor what the doctor said. Just within the past 2 years he's started taking Valtrex. I don't know what that is! I don't listen to commercials. I asked him about it one day, "what do you take this for anyway?" He jsut kinda brushed around it saying "Oh, just some red sores, like pimples" He did NOT say "herpes" why after 14 years of marriage would I think that open sores meant he had herpes?
So now what do I do? Just give it time and deal with it? This is the only time he's ever lied to me. Even though there are a bunch of little lies about it.
Do I forgive him and stay together? I think I'd be more miserable without him :( I have not been tested yet, I go Thurs. I may have had breakouts but thought they were jsut pimples from shaving. As I read other's posts, I don't have some of the simptoms they have. Could I have passed it on to my children and now they have to get tested? They are 15 and 13.
Thanks for reading my story and any comments you may have.