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I Can't Read His Mixed Signals

Group Therapy: I Can't Read His Mixed Signals

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I've known this guy for about 2 years . . . we've been acquaintances. I wasn't single until a few months ago. He and I got closer and hit it off . . . as friends (or so I thought). We would talk every day, hang out, and have fun. I liked him and I wanted to see where it would go. Well last week we kissed. It was a great kiss, but it caught me off guard. He has never told me he is interested and neither of us has ever brought it up. Well the day after the kissing, he called me like normal. We talked about random stuff and then he asked me to hang out the next day.

The way he treated me was different. But not in the way I would have expected. I figured he'd be more flirty, maybe more kissing, more action. But he was very formal. He also seemed very nice, but almost like in a caring way. I just cannot figure out whether this guy is into me or not. I rationalize that he must like me on some level because he initiated the kiss and he continued talked to me afterward. But he hasn't tried to kiss me since! He did tell me he moves very slowly and that he isn't into flings. But he told me this as part of a general talk we had the other night, not directly in terms of he and I.

Ideally, I'd like to bring this up somehow. But I don't want to be that annoying, drama girl asking what our deal is so early on in the . . .whatever this is. Anyone have any thoughts or suggestions?

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