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I Don't Like My Boyfriend's Friend

"I Cannot Stand My Boyfriend's Friend"

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I have been with my BF for about two years now and for the most part things are good. We talk and hang out regularly, we have met each others friends already and we have open lines of communication. Here's the kicker. He has this one close friend of his whom I cannot stand. They met each other about a year ago and I feel like the the two of them have something "special" together that I can't put a finger on. When we all hang out together, they start chatting and I have no idea what is going on. I somehow get ignored and I feel really crappy that I don't have any clue what's going on. It seems like whenever my BF and I aren't hanging out, they both make time to do something together. This makes me feel uncomfortable. Sometimes, I feel like he puts him over me sometimes and that really gets me angry and makes me hate this guy even more. I feel like whenever I find out (or when he tells me) they are doing something together, it makes my blood boil. This dude to me seems like such a bad influence. I know it is partially due to jealousy, but what can I do to get past this?

I think the fact that I feel neglected when he is with his friend is making me feel insecure and depressed. This guy is also a known cheater (which kinda makes me hate him even more!).

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