They are attached at the hip. My boyfriend constantly complains about her all the time but he's like a momma's boy whenever they're together. It's annoying. They hug and dance and do weird things together, while I'm there. I also CAN'T stand when the mother tries to one up me- like telling me things as if I don't know. It sounds petty and crazy but I swear she does it. She wants to be better than me in a weird way. She wants to make sure that I know she knows him better. I want to get to know everything about him in time and on my own terms. Also, the other day we were talking and I was joking around and said "I am the princess! Wait no the queen!" And out of the blue, he says, "You'll have to talk to my mom about that one." It was very creepy. I am so annoyed about hearing how great his mother is at cooking too. Would he prefer to live with her his entire life? Sounds it. His mother controls every aspect of his life. He's 20 and has a curfew. The one night I had to stay over because the roads were bad, and he wouldn't even sneak over to the room I was sleeping in... I'm just sick of it all. I mean, I feel like his mother is always first and she purposely does things to make sure she's #1. Am I crazy here?