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I Have a Crush on a Girl

"I Have My First Crush on a Girl"

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our community. Add your advice in the comments!

There's this girl I think is super sexy. She is also my first female crush. She talks to me on Facebook. She goes out with somebody, but calls me cute when she knows I think she's cute. But for some reason I don't think she means it. I really like her and want her to be mine, but she's taken. Should I continue talking to her or just move on? It's hard when I see her five days a week.

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Bettye-Wayne Bettye-Wayne 5 years
Wow pax, last time I checked you were a homophobe from hell. Glad to see you're coming around to my side of the debate! Flirt for fun when you're around her but don't put all your eggs in one basket. There is no guarantee that there will be some "inevitable time when she realizes that you are actually the one she needs-" you might be setting yourself up for some serious disappointment if you wait around for that. If it happens it happens, but don't be afraid to explore your new-found bisexuality with other women.
pax4pax pax4pax 5 years
Step up your contact with and build a relationship. Don't give up till she tells you to give up. Even though she is with someone else, you can get to know her and be there for that inevitable time when she realizes that you are actually the one she needs.
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