So I've been dating this guy long-distance for over a year now. I love him very much and he loves me. We live on opposite ends of the world to each other, but see each other a few times a year. However, work schedules and finances prevent us from seeing each other more often. We talk on the phone every day, twice a day and have a loving relationship. Recently, I told him that he is free to do things with other women when he is not with me. The rules are that 1) he can't know them well (no friends, just acquaintances or strangers), 2) he can do everything but sex, oral is okay, 3) he has to tell me about it, 4) and lastly, he cannot get emotionally involved (one girl, one time only, no repeats). Is this weird??? I feel like it is but I honestly don't mind as long as he follows those rules. Also, he never even mentioned this arrangement to me, it was my idea. Why do you think I'm okay with this setup? Has anyone else made an agreement like this with their boyfriend? Oh, and also I do not have the same agreement with him for myself. Meaning that I haven't asked to do stuff with other guys, and have no desire to because he is all I want.
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