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Sunday Confessional: I'm Crazy About Him, but He Has a Girlfriend

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I met this guy about four months ago and when we initially met, he told me he was in this on and off relationship, but nothing serious. His brother who happens to be my friend said he wasn't in a relationship last he knew. Well as at the time I met him I was roundin' up a relationship so I didn't really care.

One week into the relationship we had sex and things got a little intense and he said he wanted an open relationship apparently he and his girlfriend had gotten back together again so I said no and we stopped talking. A week after we started talking and we didn't talk about what he wanted and we were having so much fun. Great sex and everything. Weeks after we talked about us and he said I should be patient with him because he doesn't want the relationship with her again and he can't settle with her in the long run and he wants me for future and all but he's been with her two years he doesn't know how to just end it. And did I mention they practically live together? At least she stays there four times a week because of the proximity to her work place he says. I thought about it and I said OK, but a month plus or two into it we have become so close he's my best friend and all — we quarrel about it every time and I can't take whole thing anymore especially as things with them don't seem to be anything but fine and he chooses her over me on some occasions. This last week he said I should give him a month and we should just be friends for him to sort it out and then we can date fully — I wasn't happy about it I was sad and all. Then he came back again and said we can make it work if only I can overlook that she's there and we just enjoy. I don't know what to do advise pls. txxx

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