I've been seeing a guy for one year. It started out as a booty call then has changed into friends with benefits. Now I have some feelings for him. I told him that I was starting to like him. He said he likes me too but we both feel that we don't want to be in a serious relationship so we agreed to keep hanging out. I found out that he's been talking to his ex-girlfriend from four years ago and he tells her he loves her and only wants to be with her. He is even visiting her for a month (she lives out of state). He lied to me about it and said he's going on a road trip with his buddies. He doesn't know I know this though. I'm confused about our situation. Is he just playing me? I don't expect to be serious with him but the thought of him lying to me and being sweet to another girl irks me. His actions are suggesting that he's a player. I've been wanting to stop seeing him but I'm attached.