I have been dating my long-distance boyfriend for 1.5 years now and would like to get married at least by end of next year. I'm sure he wants to get married to me, but he doesn't want to give me a timeline for when. I understand that it takes the romance out of asking, but I'd like to have a say in the plan too! Is that unreasonable? Is the girl usually in the dark about when it's going to happen?