In regards to my sexual past, I'd say I was a late bloomer; I didn't have teenage relationships where you get a lot of "experience" foreplaying and stuff. I went directly into pleasing the men and not really letting myself get pleased or relax enough to let them, I guess? I'm also finding now that I'm hardly ever really wet down there. It is hit or miss; sometimes I can be drenched but others dry as a bone, and mentally I'm the same into the sex we are about to have.
I have purchased books in the past about this subject — didn't seem to help. I've approached a doctor about this, and she just shrugged me off (which was embarrassing, I don't talk to anyone about this and the first person — other than my boyfriend — totally down-steps it). Now I know people say, not every girl is going to orgasm, but from what I read, it seems like it does, so I feel like I'm the only one in the world missing out. I'm 27, not a young one, but seriously frustrated in more ways than one.
Any, any, any help/suggestions would be greatly appreciated, even if it is other books or websites or anything. I'm seemingly desperate to have an orgasm!!!!