I have lied to every single one of my friends who has ever asked me about being a virgin. I always say that I am not a virgin, because the people that I interact with on a daily basis talk trash/make fun of virgins (I'm on a sports team). I know that this is something someone should not be ashamed of, but I'm 21 and can't handle listening to all of their sex stories knowing that they think I understand what they are talking about and can contribute to the conversation. I've had boyfriends, but we never got to the level of sex. Now my dilemma is that I'm almost out of college and can't bear the fact that I could finish college and enter the real dating world as a virgin. My constant internal debate is deciding whether I should wait for a great guy (who I won't find in college, all the guys here are pricks), or just give it up to the next one that asks to take me home after a late night at the bars.
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