Here's a weird one: what are your thoughts on men and pornography? I recently found a dirty DVD of my father's and am very upset by it. I can't understand why a 60 year old man needs this type of thing. He is very conservative, clean cut, doesn't even drink. Please give me your thoughts on this topic as I struggle to come to terms with it. Skeeved Second Sibling
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Dear Skeeved Second Sibling
As the song says "Everybody's A Dirty Rider." Men of all ages and types are stimulated visually and are into instant gratification. This is nothing more than a natural reaction to an animalistic instinct.
I think that you are just grossed out at the idea that you Dad is sexual. That's understandable, but if you separate yourself a little bit and try and see him as an actual man and not your Dad, then you would understand that he's just a guy, like anybody else who has sexual urges.
As you get older, you aren't nuetered. Wouldn't it male for a horrible and depressing outlook on life if we lost our sex drive as we got older?
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