I think it's pretty weird that he won't masturbate when he is alone, and I think he can visualize us instead of referring to video tapes. He basically called me selfish for not doing what he wants me to do, and he told me I am not contributing to our sex life (although I have never refused sex with him and miss not having it in his absence) because I do not get Brazilians anymore or make elaborate sexual plans. I have also never orgasmed when we've had sex. He blames me for this, and told me if he doesn't mind me not orgasming (although I want to) then I shouldn't mind him videotaping me. However that works.
We've been dating for nearly three years now, and I'm annoyed that he wants to play these games. I just want a normal sex life. He's a nice guy for the most part, but I think he's crossing the line.
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