I've been in a long-term relationship with my boyfriend for 7 years, however I've been cheating on him with another guy for 2 years now. I love my boyfriend very much. He is a great guy. He is the one. The other guy started off as a no-strings attached, but now it is serious. I've been living a double life. I can't make a decision. I want both guys in my life right now. I know it is not fair for them or me. It is stressful. I am 26 yrs. old. I've been with my boyfriend since I was 19. He knows me, supports me, loves me unconditionally and the bond we have is something I know I will never have with another man. I know that the other guy is not the one, but I feel like having fun with him. Maybe the fact that I've been in a long-term committed relationship has made me want to branch out and have different experiences. I don't know why the love I have for my boyfriend is not enough to end it with the other guy. I'm amazed that I have been carrying out that relationship for 2 years. Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? Does anyone have any advice in general about relationships? Please do not judge me.
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