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Group Therapy: Our Marriage Is Falling Apart

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I have been married for four years to my husband, and now I am at a cross road and don't know what to do. Things have changed since being married to my husband, some good, and some not so good.

Before I got married I was driven, focused, and I knew what I wanted out of life and what I didn't. I knew that I wanted to go to college, and earn my degree so that one day I could make something out of myself. I also had hobbies and a life with friends, and family. But when I got with my husband, things changed, and I don't know what to say or do.

When we got together we had the fundamentals down: I told him honestly what I need from the relationship love, attention (lots), affection, etc. I also told him what I didn't want, kids, which we have one now and I wouldn't change that for the world. But that has changed me. I love my daughter and I do want another child, and he is still adamant on never having another child, while I fantasize about having another. I also find that he has an obsession with gaming and the Internet that takes time and attention away from our family. This has been going on for some time, and I can't seem to get through to him, he either doesn't want to accept we have a problem or doesn't want admit he knows were on a bumpy path.

I know that since we have a child together that I should keep fighting for us, or at least that's what I think will be said, but I have been fighting for us single handedly. He is caught up in his game, spending time with his brother, and even his daughter; I am the one left out. When he cooks he cooks for his family, excluding me, by making food I can not eat. But the worst part is, I find that I am no longer attracted to him, I love him, but I don't know if it is the same. What should I do?

 

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