Please help me understand what is the principal of a married couple? Once man marries he should put his wife and kids No. 1 or his sister and mom? I'm in a very bad position right now. My husband's sister won't leave my husband alone since I got into her. Texts him and calls him with any excuse she can find. I told my husband to tell her to move her address and get her packages and mail mailed to her address, but he has no balls to say it to her. And she checks on him if we get her packages and asks him to deliver them to her by a certain time and also asks him how we are doing and tells him how much she loves him and will be there for him. And all she is doing is bugging me so much. She never paid attention to her brother before — why now? And I told my husband that it bothers me but he is not getting it. What should I do?