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Group Therapy: Do Three Lovers Make a Party or a Crowd?

This question comes from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments!

Recently I have put myself in a really bad situation. I'm not involved with just one person, I'm involved with three men.  We can call them Al, Bob, and Cris.

I'm more romantically involved with Al and he is more my type, but Bob and Cris I'm more sexually attracted to. Al does not know about Bob or Cris, but Bob and Cris know about each other.

Bob really likes me a lot and gets so upset that I'm involved with Al and Cris, but I'm not serious with him. I don't know if it's a good thing that I continue doing this but at the same time I feel I'm young and I'm having fun.

In a way I would love to be in a committed relationship but I'm a little scared to. Should I take this leap of faith and try a relationship, just have fun, or let them all go? 

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