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Is My Best Friend Into My Boyfriend?

"Is My Best Friend Into My Boyfriend?"

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments!

How close is too close when it comes to your boyfriend and other girls? When have they crossed a line?

I've been dating a guy for nearly a year now and we're very close, practically talking every day. The complication comes in with my best friend, who I've known for ten years and who is also one of his best friends. They are really close and talk almost every day — sometimes she calls late at night after she knows I've fallen asleep — they have inside jokes, and even talk on the computer for hours on end. I know friendships are based on trust and being able to talk to one another openly, which is why I don't mind that they talk, but when they are actually around each other she starts to get a lot closer to him. She is always finding ways to touch him — his hair, arms, stomach — and even bites him!

I've tried to ask her if she has feelings for him, but she says she never could because he is my boyfriend and she wouldn't hurt me. Has she taken a step too far? What should I do?

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