For the whole time we've been together sometimes he says and jokes around with the most unusual things, like saying about "doing a guy in the butt" and joking in a silly manner, but like lately he's been doing it more and I'm started to get really turned off. Is he like secretly gay or something? I understand men joke around sometimes but like there's a limit to this and he seems to be crossing it. Any suggestions? Does your guy do this?
Also, whenever I bring it up he's like "I'm not gay! Wow are you serious they're just f*cking jokes!" He gets defensive, then yesterday he said, "I'm comfortable in my sexuality to say those jokes and know I'm not gay." I don't understand him; why would he keep saying them then? Is there any suggestions as to how to approach him and tell him if he does have those thoughts or he is homosexual that its okay and to talk to me about it? I don't want to end up being married in the future and find out he is gay and be heartbroken. How can I approach someone like this? Thanks for all the support!