I just started dating a guy I met a couple of weeks ago and he talks about his ex girlfriend a lot! He says that he would never get back together with her but I'm not so sure I believe it. He seems intrested in me but I can't be with a guy who yaps about this ex all the time. I think he's still in love with her. Also, he's a single man and he is buying a $6oo,ooo 5 bedroom house. I think that is nuts for a single man to live in such a big house by himself! What do you think? Wondering Whelma
Dear Wondering Whelma
If you just met this guy and you still think that he's in love with his ex, that's a big warning sign. You should talk to Impatient Amanda. My Boyfriend Always Talks About His Ex. I think if you feel like he's not ready to be with you just yet, then you should keep your emotional distance for him for a little while longer. As far as the house is concerned, does he have the financial means to buy this house? What do you think his agenda is for wanting 5 bedrooms? How much does he hate moving and does he think this is the house that he's going to live in forever? This could show that he's a committed guy and he wants to settle down - or, he could just be showing off.