I know that my boyfriend likes porn, he probably watches it at least once every couple of days. It doesn't bother me too much, I don't think that he has an addiction or anything like that and I don't feel that it negatively affects our intimacy.
The last couple of times that we had big fights, I found out that he watched porn afterward. One time, I caught him in the act and he was embarrassed. Today, he forgot to erase the browsing history like he normally does. I saw that he had watched it when I went out for coffee with a friend to talk about the fight I had with him. I am so angry and upset at him right now after our fight yesterday, I cannot even imagine being turned on right now. When I caught him, he basically said that he felt so bad that he just wanted to feel good for awhile. I suspect that he is using the masturbation as a way to relax when he is tense or upset, but I find this behavior really gross and inappropriate when I am upset and angry and he is doing that! What the hell is wrong with him? Would you be grossed out if your boyfriend did that after a big fight?
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