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My Man Uses Condoms That Are Too Big

Group Therapy: My Guy Has Penis Envy

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments!

I've only been seeing "Tim" for a short while, but he's a great guy: smart, sensitive, talented, and with a sex drive high enough to rival my own. There are two little problems, however.

One is that he has a hard time (oh, what an unfortunate choice of words) getting and maintaining an erection. The second is that even though he possesses one of the smallest members I've ever encountered (and I don't judge — I swear. I've never been a size queen), I recently discovered that he buys XXL condoms. WTF?! Putting his obvious delusions of grandeur aside for the moment, the too-big prophylactics concern me due to their poor fit and thus poor reliability

Without totally destroying the poor boy's ego, how do I address the fact that his penis is not nearly as large as he must think it is, and that it would benefit both of us for him to consider trying Viagra or Cialis or some other ED medication? Also, while he more than compensates with his mouth and hands, should I even bother continuing to see a guy if he can't leave me sexually satisfied?

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