Say what you will about the president and his opponent, they both seem to have exceptionally happy marriages, especially compared to some other high-profile couples of late. Ahem, Arnold Schwarzenegger.
Obviously, looks can be deceiving. Take John Edwards, for example. None of us knows the behind-closed-doors reality of other peoples' marriages. Still, since President Obama burst onto the national political scene at the 2004 convention, everything we have learned about him reflects what seems to be an exceptionally healthy, happy, loving marriage.
So what lessons can we glean from the president's relationship with his wife? For starters, Barack and Michelle prioritize date nights. And as a DC resident, I have been caught in more than one traffic jam that resulted therefrom.
They also talk about keeping each other real. Over the years, many of my psychotherapy patients have mentioned that they feel inspired by the way the president and First Lady speak about each other. For example, at the Democratic Convention, when Michelle Obama said, "We were so young, so in love and so in debt," it helped young couples know that it's possible to get through challenging financial times and that love does make a difference.
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— Elisabeth LaMotte
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