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Group Therapy: Obsessed With My Fiancé's Ex

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Please help me! My fiancé is an amazing guy, but I can't seem to get over his past. We were friends before we started dating, which led to us talking about both of our exes. His just happens to be his high-school teacher that he dated for 3 years! They started dating when he was almost 16 and he broke up with her when he was almost 19. She is 12 years older than him, the worst part is that he lost his virginity to her and he got her pregnant! She had to abort it though because it would have caused major legal issues.

I don't stalk her on Facebook or Myspace, I just can't get her out of my head! From the moment I wake up I start to feel sick about it. I know everyone has a past, and I'm one to talk . . . I have a baby with an ex! But I'm still so judgmental! He has reassured me that he is totally over her and that whole situation. But I don't want to keep bringing her up, as I'm afraid that would be keeping his memory fresh of her.

Please help. I don't like the way I feel. I have even started to take antidepressants because I can't get my head normal. I hate feeling this way!

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