Your boyfriend has been acting strange lately. He seems distracted when you’re with him, and when you call, he often won’t make it to his phone before his voicemail picks up. After a few days of this behavior, you start to get suspicious. You head over to his house to make a surprise visit and oh, what a surprise! Would it be worse if you caught him on the computer . . .
This: Playing as a character in a multiplayer online game? Sure it’s just a game, but it appears to have taken over his life; he’s wholly invested in his Internet persona and even has a virtual "girlfriend."
Or . . .
That: Watching porn of all kinds, though his favorite appears to involve feet? You’re OK with porn every once and a while, but he seems to have crossed a line.
Which is worse?