If you were feeling lonely before you got this pillow in the form of a man's arm, shoulder and part-torso, you might feel downright suicidal afterward. If single, why not try on-line dating, or my favorite remedy: eating nachos? You may gain weight, but you won't lose every shred of dignity. (Lest you feel that a message is being sent that only women are lonely, notice there's a Lonely Man pillow, too). I love that these come in different "business man shirt" colors: cornflower, pink, and wasabi green. Hey, beggars CAN be choosers!