I have been with my boyfriend for two years, and I know that I love him, but I've recently been having sexy dreams about my ex and it's got me thinking about him again. It's making me nervous. I don't want to leave my boyfriend, so what should I do about these feelings? Concerned Carrie
Dear Concerned Carrie
Just because you have a sexual fantasy while you are sleeping doesn't mean that you should act on it. On any given day, do you think about your ex and what it would be like to get back together with him? Think about if it's him that you miss or if it's just hot sex that you are lusting after. Talk to your boyfriend about spicing things up in the sack. Better yet, talk dirty to him and tell him what you want WHILE you are in the act. I can't imagine he'd refuse your wishes.