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Relationship Protocol: His House or Yours?

If you're not ready to share the same mailing address as your boyfriend, chances are you take turns spending time at each other's apartments. But when you're flip flopping houses, it's easy to feel the nag of living out of a bag. In every relationship, give and take is key, but it seems like every couple ends up spending more time at one person's place. So whether your place is bigger or his place is nicer, where do you spend most of your time: his place or yours?

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Silverlining10 Silverlining10 8 years
100% mine. Since September (When classes started), I have only visited his room twice when his roommates were in, twice when they weren't. He lives in the dorms...enough said. I live alone...enough said.
Silverlining10 Silverlining10 8 years
100% mine. Since September (When classes started), I have only visited his room twice when his roommates were in, twice when they weren't. He lives in the dorms...enough said. I live alone...enough said.
sparklestar sparklestar 8 years
It's about 50/50 right now though I suspect this will change over the summer when he has to move to live at his parents again... I think he'll be spending more time at mine. ;p
ninjastarlett ninjastarlett 8 years
We used to stay at his place a lot but now we're at mine more... and it'll probably change again soon.
wendyelle wendyelle 8 years
his place. otherwise i'd have to introduce him to my parents... too soon!
geebers geebers 8 years
his place. I live in Astoria and work on the upper east side and he lives in Hoboken and works in Weehawken. Since my commute from his place is really only ten extra minutes and his from my place would be an extra hour - during the week I stay there. He does come by my place on weekends provided neither of us have other plans.
psychobabble psychobabble 8 years
His place for sure. I live in the city and have a roommate, so on the weekends I love to just get away and head to his place in the suburbs. I can't wait to get married and move to the suburbs with him!
havok636 havok636 8 years
my place.his roommate and girlfriend usually get his place,so at mine we can get some alone time
havok636 havok636 8 years
my place. his roommate and girlfriend usually get his place, so at mine we can get some alone time
becca73 becca73 8 years
We definately spend more time at his place than mine. I live in a small rural community, he lives in a large city. It takes me longer to get to work when staying at his house, but if he was to stay at my house, it would take him twice as long due to traffic. Also, with my custody arrangement, my son stays a week with me and a week with his father, those weeks that my son's with his dad, I stay with my bf. When my child's with me, I stay home (closer to my son's school). When my son goes back with his dad, my bf and I are more than ready to see each other and spend lots of "quality time" together. It's hard doing so much traveling and living life out of a bag but we keep our chins up. One of these days we'll be in a position to move in together.
bigestivediscuit bigestivediscuit 8 years
It's almost equal, but I think we mostly spend the weekend at his place since it's huge and there's a gorgeous park right outside the door!
hex913 hex913 8 years
We spend more time at his house. Our usual schedule is 3 days at mine (which really ends up to be 3 nights, and about 2 and a half days counting travel time), and 4 days at his, he gets the better end of the bargain, but he also has kitties that need to be taken of.
MissMeow MissMeow 8 years
His place. Its a three minute work from my job, and he has a great entertainment system. My apartment is 45 minutes away from work, so its easier to sleep over at his place alot.
bengalspice bengalspice 8 years
His. He lives in Manhattan and closer to my work place. Who wants to commute from Astoria when you can commute from Manhattan without paying Manhattan rent!
bluebellknoll bluebellknoll 8 years
My place. But only because I have a doggie. Sometimes I'll spend the day at his place but he always stays the night at mine.
aimeeb aimeeb 8 years
My place, there is no roommate. :)
tomatoshirt tomatoshirt 8 years
wish the economy was better so i could affort to live in the city...
tomatoshirt tomatoshirt 8 years
his place, since its closer to my job and i live REALLY REALLy REALLY far from the City. but i am getting tired of it...
fortunate-fool fortunate-fool 8 years
His. We're in a long distance relationship until August when I move in with him so I tend to go there more than he comes here. He has his own place, I live with my parents. He also works full time and is going to school while I'm just waiting to start school in August now. So it makes more sense for me to go there because it's his and because I have unlimited free time right now.
StefaPie StefaPie 8 years
My place, I'm closer to all of our friends and have a nicer place (with backyard in the city!).When i have to be in to work early, his place, it's a lot closer to my office.
StefaPie StefaPie 8 years
My place, I'm closer to all of our friends and have a nicer place (with backyard in the city!). When i have to be in to work early, his place, it's a lot closer to my office.
jettagirl3 jettagirl3 8 years
His place..he has a nicer tv, a bigger bed and no roomates!
atablackbelt atablackbelt 8 years
His place, because he prefers to ride his bike to work, and my place is 30 miles from his work. Also he lives in a large city near my family, so it is more convenient if I spend most of my time there...versus spending time in the small farming community where I work.
Shopaholichunny Shopaholichunny 8 years
His place! :)
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 8 years
Before I moved in with my man I lived at home. So a majority I would spend at his place...plus it was only like 5 minutes from work! And then whenever my parents were away somewhere, he would spend the night at my home :)
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