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Relationship Protocol: Who Has the Stronger Sex Drive?

The desire for sex varies from person to person, and can range anywhere from a constant urge to a complete lack of interest. Essentially there’s no right answer for how often you should or shouldn’t want sex, but if you’re in a relationship, finding a mutual balance will go a long way in creating a harmonious sexual connection. I’m sure you all have your own happy medium, but ladies, in general, how does your sex drive differ from his?

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ilanac13 ilanac13 7 years
i think that we both USED to have equal sex drives and i feel like sometimes i have more and sometimes he has more..but it's definitely a lot less than it used to be. i don't know what the reason is and it's kind of upsetting sometimes, cause i know that one of the reasons we got along so well in the beginning is because we were so into each other.
OoOThisIsMeOoO OoOThisIsMeOoO 7 years
we both want it equally and we both have a high sex drive so there's alot of sex going on! a day usually doesn't go by (unless i'm on my period) where we dont have sex at least once a day and sometimes twice or three times... it's great!!
OoOThisIsMeOoO OoOThisIsMeOoO 7 years
we both want it equally and we both have a high sex drive so there's alot of sex going on! a day usually doesn't go by (unless i'm on my period) where we dont have sex at least once a day and sometimes twice or three times...it's great!!
Belle1031 Belle1031 7 years
I do, my guy is horny a lot but sometimes he prefers porn or a BJ (he's just lazy lol). When we do have sex, which is a couple of times a week, its AMAZING!
jodie_ohlala jodie_ohlala 7 years
I do.
jodie_ohlala jodie_ohlala 7 years
I do.
Muirnea Muirnea 7 years
He does.
Muirnea Muirnea 7 years
He does.
jessie jessie 7 years
he does
jessie jessie 7 years
he does
bikinib7 bikinib7 7 years
Mine used to be at the same level, but his is definitely higher now.. although I'm happy to oblige.
valancyjane valancyjane 7 years
His sex drive is WAY higher. I've never had a huge libido, with any partner. But we're working on it; I go by the mantra "you have to have sex to want sex" and I figure if we have sex regularly I will want it more. If it's been longer than a week or two I will sometimes initiate even if I don't crave it, because I know he does crave it; and he appreciates the ego boost.
CYL CYL 7 years
OH YES! Thank goodness fellow sugars! I thought I was the only girl with the higher sex drive >. >
CYL CYL 7 years
OH YES! Thank goodness fellow sugars! I thought I was the only girl with the higher sex drive >. >
bchicgrl bchicgrl 7 years
It's the same way with me Blair, I want to have sex a lot more then he does, I bring up how long its been and he acts shocked. It def does suck.
sparklestar sparklestar 7 years
I'm the one with the higher sex drive! It's way higher because he works full time and comes home exhausted so I have to push a little bit if I want any action... he usually doesn't say no though. ;p
designerel designerel 7 years
We're about the same but he claims I'm the nympho in the relationship.
MissJules5x MissJules5x 7 years
i think we both want it equally. pretty much not a day goes by that we don't have sex and sometimes its more than once. i think we both initiate it equally as well.
BlairBear BlairBear 7 years
I have the higher sex drive mostly because my husband doesn't have any drive at all. I always want to have sex and he never does. I try and try and try and get turned down 95% of the time. It sucks!
psterling psterling 7 years
I'm glad to know that there are other girls out there with a higher drive than her man. I've always had a higher drive than my hubby and it used to bother me but I've learned to accept it and we've reached a happy balance.
Mesayme Mesayme 7 years
well, I'm celibate right now but I still have the 'urge'... lots of dancing :ROTFL: to 'She's a Maniac!' LOL
Mesayme Mesayme 7 years
Me. absolutely. :P
gemsera gemsera 7 years
Definitely him, but we are working on it :)
CoMMember13630786602261 CoMMember13630786602261 7 years
Id say we are pretty evenly matched. We are both down for it whenever.
aka-Daria aka-Daria 7 years
me. most def.
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