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"My Boyfriend Is a Selfish Lover"

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I have been seeing this guy for some time now, and we are really good together. We get each other. He's very kind and caring and we match completely. He's now talking marriage and wanting to spend the rest of his life with me and stuff like that . . . but there's just one problem. He's the most selfish person that I have ever seen in bed.

He doesn't try. He only really cares about getting off you know. It's basically all about me paying attention to him. I've tried talking to him about it and it works, but for that one time. Next time we're in bed, he's back to his usual habits. It's not even like he doesn't really know what he's doing type of situation you know? He can be very good when he wants to be, like when we had first started dating. I don't want to break up with him over something like this, I really really love him, but I'm also smart enough to know that sex is very important. What in the world should I do?

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