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Group Therapy: Can I Keep Having Sex With My Ex-Boyfriend?

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Here is something that I have been wondering for the past couple months: is it possible to have casual sex with an ex or are emotions always involved? The reason why I am contemplating this is because, as you probably already guessed, my ex-boyfriend and I are having sex.

We dated for two years and after we broke up, we had not seen each other for over a year and half. But now, we're talking more often and he insists on us hanging out. The first time we hung out, I was not expecting anything to happen. We wanted to get together to catch up as old friends, but then we had sex later that night. And last night he took me out to dinner and we had sex again.

I have noticed that he's being romantic and flirty, which isn't a bad thing, and he's willing to drive three hours to see me (we go to college in different states). He also always makes an effort to set a date with me when I am home for college break. I mean, obviously I have feelings for him and I know he cares about me. But, the thing I am trying to figure out is if he actually wants to try a relationship again or if he just likes getting laid. So, what do you guys think?

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