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Sex Q&A With Dr. Natasha Janina Valdez 2010-03-11 13:45:04

Ask a Kinky Question, Get a Kinky Answer

We're excited to welcome clinical sexologist Dr. Natasha Janina Valdez, author of A Little Bit Kinky, to TrèsSugar for a week of guest blogging. She's helped thousands of couples create healthier relationships through sex, and next week she'll be here to help us!


From how to get what you want in bed to how to give it, Dr. Natasha will help us kink up our love lives. Have a question for her? Ask it below, and she may answer it next Friday, March 19, in our Q&A with her.

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capestelle capestelle 5 years
After sex last night my boyfriend confessed to me that he feels inadequate because I don't orgasm without one of us rubbing my clit. He said he feels like "less of a man" and that maybe he isn't big enough for me. He also said that with every girl he's been with before me (and it's been quite a few!), hes never needed to spend so much time with his fingers to get them to reach orgasm. I feel inadequate and stupid. I know there are different types of orgasms, but how do you feel that "full body vaginal orgasm"? Is it normal to need the clit as well? I'd like to be able to reach orgasm without my clit, but I just don't get as turned on. Now all I can think of is "I must orgasm quickly so he doesn't get upset" and feel pressured! Please help.
capestelle capestelle 5 years
After sex last night my boyfriend confessed to me that he feels inadequate because I don't orgasm without one of us rubbing my clit. He said he feels like "less of a man" and that maybe he isn't big enough for me. He also said that with every girl he's been with before me (and it's been quite a few!), hes never needed to spend so much time with his fingers to get them to reach orgasm. I feel inadequate and stupid. I know there are different types of orgasms, but how do you feel that "full body vaginal orgasm"? Is it normal to need the clit as well? I'd like to be able to reach orgasm without my clit, but I just don't get as turned on. Now all I can think of is "I must orgasm quickly so he doesn't get upset" and feel pressured! Please help.
tlsgirl tlsgirl 5 years
Also, being a sexologist sounds like a pretty awesome job. I know neither of those were questions, but still.
tlsgirl tlsgirl 5 years
I am so buying that book.
tlsgirl tlsgirl 5 years
I am so buying that book.
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