Skip Nav
Sex
Follow the (Zodiac) Signs to Great Sex
Relationships
This Heartwarming NFL Kiss Cam Video Proves That Love Has No Labels
Women's Health
Healing Crystal Dildos Are Here to Make Your Vagina a Magical Place

Should I Tell Him I'm a Virgin?

"Should I Tell Him I'm Inexperienced?"

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our community. Add your advice in the comments!

Would a guy who's had quite a bit of experience, and has been in several long-term relationships, ever want to be with a 26-year-old virgin who hasn't been in a relationship? How and when should I tell a guy that I'm not experienced?

Have a dilemma of your own? Post it anonymously in Group Therapy for advice.

Image Source: Shutterstock
Around The Web
Join The Conversation
Sherrilee Sherrilee 3 years
I don't see my comment so I'll comment again. I think a man would appreciate an inexperienced girl if he is sensitive to her. I would let him knowit soon. It wouldn' tbe fair to him not to let him know. Let him know your feelings so the two of you can talk it out.
GTCB GTCB 3 years
As a guy, the answer to your first question is yes. The answer to your second question is 'when the time is right'. I know, that's not that helpful, but perhaps you can tell him when you're removing each other's clothes for the first time. Trust me, it's not a turn-off. Not at all. And if it is for him then you'll have learned something very important about his attitude and tolerance.
candyb5238 candyb5238 3 years
OMG! You and I were on the same boat a year ago. I was 25 and still a virgin, with a guy with more than enough experience. I guess it depends on how long you guys have been together. It's not information that I personally shared with every guy I dated, but with my ex I just blurted it out one day. I suppose it's because I saw myself going "there" with him. Honesty is always the best policy. He freaked out at first, but he liked me so it wasn't a problem. He was very patient and respectful. And if a guy can't handle it, then it's HIS loss.
Signs You're Dating a Jerk
What to Expect in Your 30s
Why Is My Sex Drive Down?
The Meaning of True Love
How to Watch Porn With Your Partner
What Men Want in a Girlfriend
What Are Men Most Attracted To?

POPSUGAR, the #1 independent media and technology company for women. Where more than 75 million women go for original, inspirational content that feeds their passions and interests.

From Our Partners
Latest Love
All the Latest From Ryan Reynolds