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This or That: Slovenly or Porn Habit?

After nearly two years of harmonious dating, you and your boyfriend have decided to move in together. You’re both extremely excited about the prospect, but after only a few weeks of living under the same roof, you’re learning a few things you never knew. You’re still compatible in most ways, but would it be worse if he . . .

This: Has no ability or desire to keep any portion of the place clean or tidy? You can take messy, but it’s the grime, filth, and caked on crumbs that are killing you.

Or . . .

That: Has a very persistent habit of watching porn until the wee hours of the morning? He only does it after you go to bed, but it stills feels too often to be healthy.

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calli-gurl calli-gurl 7 years
the porn thing is worse. i wouldnt want my guy seeing another girls nude body. lol. and i can always teach him how to be clean :)
odd-man-out odd-man-out 8 years
Well, seeing as I think porn is both sad and disgusting... (I don't want to offend anyone who enjoys it, but that is how it is for me.) I would think that the porn habit is way worse. And I am a guy. I'm also a bit lazy about cleaning and tidying, as long as there aren't hygiene concerns. I don't see an issue with being a bit relaxed on keeping things in perfect order as long as it isn't unhealthy.
Muirnea Muirnea 8 years
Ew, in real life both of these are deal breakers..but since we have to pick one on here, the porn would def. be the worst.
gigill gigill 8 years
Totally not cool with the porn habit.
puddlesworth puddlesworth 8 years
I'd take ANYTHING over a porn habit!
italianblonde italianblonde 8 years
I picked the messy one. If he looked at porn after I went to bed like all night and I woke up to pee and saw him masturbating...I just don't want to have that be a nightly thing I run into. I don't care if he looks at porn b/c obviously it's happening. Plus I was just made to be a mom and pick up after people; I totally don't mind it.
sourcherry sourcherry 8 years
I must admit that I'm kind of a slob as well, so we'd both have to learn to do more around the house.The porn addiction would wierd me out too much. Like others said, it involves emotional issues and it's a total deal breaker.
sourcherry sourcherry 8 years
I must admit that I'm kind of a slob as well, so we'd both have to learn to do more around the house. The porn addiction would wierd me out too much. Like others said, it involves emotional issues and it's a total deal breaker.
Jude-C Jude-C 8 years
I'd rather be grossed out by the house than by whatever's on his computer late at night.
skigurl skigurl 8 years
the porn is way worse. while having a filthy roomate is sick, the porn thing has an emotional element to it, and i'd wonder what else he had habits of doing that i dont know about
RocknBabe RocknBabe 8 years
They are both bad but I chose slob! You can always teach a man how to clean but you can't teach his penis to not crave porn.
samischo samischo 8 years
i can't even choose, they're both deal breakers!!
sparklestar sparklestar 8 years
Neither! What the hell? Either of those would see him out on his freaking ear!
Fallen85 Fallen85 8 years
I'd rather he cruise porn every night then be a disgusting dirty pig. Then again, if he'd rather watch porn then be in bed with me I highly doubt I'd be dating this guy in the first place. Porn is good, real sex is better. A guy who cant see the difference has issues.
itsme3683 itsme3683 8 years
The porn habit would wear on me more because that's more like... emotionally unsettling. Not that it's bad all the time, but an addiction can definitely strain relationships. I'd get tired of dirtiness, but like cubadog said, you can always hire somebody if it gets crazy out of control.
mondaymoos mondaymoos 8 years
I'm a neat freak, so that would be super hard for me. Plus, I'd probably just stay up and watch porn with him. :P
cubadog cubadog 8 years
I would just hire someone to clean. I don't like to do it either.
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