When the guy you've been dating asks you over to his apartment for a romantic meal, you're extremely excited; it finally seems like things are getting serious. You're very curious to see where he lives and get more insight into his life, since right now he seems to good to be true. The moment he opens the door to his apartment, you're totally overcome by what you see. Would if be worse if . . .
This: Everything from the ceilings to the floors is a total disaster? It's not so much that it's dirty; it's just that there are things everywhere you look. You don't want to set your purse down for fear of losing it.
Or . . .
That: His apartment is so perfectly clean that you're not sure how he can actually live in it? It's beautifully decorated, but you can't get comfortable. When you accidentally spill an appetizer on the floor, you can actually see him tense up as he ferociously cleans.