There's a guy in one of my classes who I just can't stop thinking about. Sounds corny I know, but I have such a big crush on him. I never really spoke to him at the begging of the semester, but today we had a great laugh together. The problem is that I am friends with the girl who he's hanging out with. I know she likes him as well, but claims they aren't officially a couple. I am 22 and he's 17 so I am also a little weirded out by the age difference. I'm scared to tell him how I feel in case I get rejected. I'm overweight and feel that a cutie like him wouldn't really want to date me. This Friday is the college night out at bowling. Should I make a move then or should I just keep my distance? Scared Scarlett
Dear Scared Scarlett
Sounds like you have a bad case of butterflies. I know that you like him - a lot- but you are asking me for tips on how to move in on your friend's man, and if it's ok to do that. The answer is no. Hell no. Your friend likes him, and they are kinda sorta dating, so you can't go there if you expect to stay friends with her. Even if you didn't like her, would you want someone moving in on your man? That's so not cool Scarlett. Sorry, but you are just going to have to suck this one up. Also, does jail bait mean anything to you? He's 17, he's not even of age.