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Sunday Confessional: Bride-to-Be Is Attracted to Someone Else

We're scouring the juicy (but anonymous!) secrets posted on Truu Confessions and letting you weigh in. One engaged confessor is having feelings for another guy!

I'm about to get married. I have very strong sexual feelings for a co-worker. I don't want to cheat. I don't know what I want to do.

Do you think this is a big deal?

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ali321 ali321 6 years
Well, then don't cheat. I mean it's normal to be attracted to other people, but it's not worth the love of your life. So if your fiance is worth anything then let this go.You can fantasize all you want. It's only a big deal if you think you would actually give in to it in reality.
ali321 ali321 6 years
Well, then don't cheat. I mean it's normal to be attracted to other people, but it's not worth the love of your life. So if your fiance is worth anything then let this go. You can fantasize all you want. It's only a big deal if you think you would actually give in to it in reality.
dikke-kus dikke-kus 6 years
Being in heat like a dog over a co worker while you're supposed to be getting married isn't funny or cute. It's just stupidity.
staple-salad staple-salad 7 years
I think it's safe to assume that people will find more than one person over the course of their life sexually attractive.What matters is what you do about it. If the woman doesn't think she can go on without cheating, obviously she's not ready for marriage. If she thinks she can handle the feelings without cheating, then she's mature enough.
staple-salad staple-salad 7 years
I think it's safe to assume that people will find more than one person over the course of their life sexually attractive. What matters is what you do about it. If the woman doesn't think she can go on without cheating, obviously she's not ready for marriage. If she thinks she can handle the feelings without cheating, then she's mature enough.
GScott86 GScott86 7 years
Gah, stupid crap...reposting: A quote I heard from a friend years ago: "Don't leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love."
GScott86 GScott86 7 years
=\ I miss the intimacy of DearSugar >_< Anyway...heard this quote somewhere. "Don't leave the one love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave the one they love."
GScott86 GScott86 7 years
=\ I miss the intimacy of DearSugar >_<Anyway...heard this quote somewhere. "Don't leave the one love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave the one they love."
bransugar79 bransugar79 7 years
I think this is definitely a question of degrees. To what degree is she attracted to this other guy. And while I can gree that being married doesn't mean your dead it shouldn't be all that common that you develop crushes on other people. We are all human and I'm sure find a variety of things attractive in many different people, but once you find a person worthy of spending your life with you tend to find that other people aren't quite as tempting because you are happy with what you have. If this sexual desire is so tempting that you are thinking that your only recourse is breaking it off with your fiance or cheating then definitly breakit off. Cheating is just not acceptable especially when you've alreadytaken this much time to thikn it through and are aware that you have other options
RaCheer RaCheer 7 years
I agree with cherryblossom.
RaCheer RaCheer 7 years
I agree with cherryblossom.
smaine07 smaine07 7 years
you should probably rethink who you are marrying and if that is what you really want....having feelings like that for someone else is kind of a big sign that maybe you aren't ready!!!!!
kimmieb124 kimmieb124 7 years
Boring. Being in a committed relationship doesn't mean you don't notice anyone else again or develop crushes, all it means is that you are committed to your partner not to act on those feelings.
cleegiants cleegiants 7 years
i think that it might be normal to have a 'crush' on someone, but lusting after someone else sexually shouldn't be part of a healthy relationship. plus, i think the fact that this bride feels that she needs to confess anything at all indicates that she thinks this is something beyond a harmless crush.
lickety-split lickety-split 7 years
if you think you will never be attracted to another persaon because you are "married", think again. marriage isn't all hearts and rainbow ponies, it's messy stuff. when you are married you will put yourself second and your spouse first. if you don't want to do that (pass up any possible booty) please stay single. marriage isn't about just love. it's commitment, believing (even when its really hard) and trusting that when you get to the end of your life you will look back with the other person and be able to say "we made it and it wasn't always easy, but it was really good".
lickety-split lickety-split 7 years
if you think you will never be attracted to another persaon because you are "married", think again. marriage isn't all hearts and rainbow ponies, it's messy stuff. when you are married you will put yourself second and your spouse first. if you don't want to do that (pass up any possible booty) please stay single. marriage isn't about just love. it's commitment, believing (even when its really hard) and trusting that when you get to the end of your life you will look back with the other person and be able to say "we made it and it wasn't always easy, but it was really good".
amynick3 amynick3 7 years
Crushes are normal, and if you love your husband to be, you won't cheat, period.
janneth janneth 7 years
Get out now. Run don't walk.Crushes and attraction when you are about to get married? No no no. Ideally you should still have a little crush on your groom.
janneth janneth 7 years
Get out now. Run don't walk. Crushes and attraction when you are about to get married? No no no. Ideally you should still have a little crush on your groom.
almost-famous almost-famous 7 years
there's going to always be another person you're going to encounter that you think is "hot". There have been so...many marriages failed because a spouse cheated, only to find out the person they cheated with weren't worth the wild. Heave the messenger...don't risk it! p.s. How would she know the penis is as good as her future hubby? dear god!
almost-famous almost-famous 7 years
there's going to always be another person you're going to encounter that you think is "hot". There have been so...many marriages failed because a spouse cheated, only to find out the person they cheated with weren't worth the wild. Heave the messenger...don't risk it! p.s. How would she know the penis is as good as her future hubby? dear god!
Hiding55 Hiding55 7 years
Crushes are normal. Don't cheat and stop thinking about this co-worker sexually. Control yourself and your fantasies.
tlsgirl tlsgirl 7 years
You didn't cheat. Everyone gets crushes. Calm down.
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